The menu button is the middle of what would be the tuner knob.I have the My Link System with the 7 in touchscreen. Is the menu/sel a button on the touchscreen, or is it a regular button outside of the touchscreen?
Also, when you pair the phone, does it download your cell phone contacts automatically, or is there another step to get it to access the contacts?
My Samsung Galaxy S2 downloaded the contacts to MyLink without any action other than pairing the phone.
Here's a link to a thread I started a while ago with links to the expanded manuals, etc - http://www.cruzetalk.com/forum/36-electronics/9700-2013-mylink-oddities-mysteries-solutions.html
According to https://www.myconnectedradio.com/web/chevrolet/hands-free-calling you may need a smart phone to get all of the features. It looks like this page will go away on 1/1/13 and be integrated into the Chevrolet web site.
I hope this helps.