I have the same setup as you with a JVC KW-V41BT, GMOS-044, and ASWC-1 SWC.
I'm just going on memory here:
1. I had to manually change the radio type to JVC using the procedure on page 12 of the manual. IIRC, it took 3-4 tries.
2. The pickup button will shut the radio off if a mute wire is not connected because it turns on the OnStar prompt. JVC / Kenwood head units don't have a mute wire, so don't even bother with the pickup button. The SW pickup button will ALWAYS activate OnStar. Already called Metra about this, it's hard coded in GM vehicles, and cannot be reprogrammed to BT phone pickup. Annoying, but just use the touch screen or voice dial on the head unit.
I assume that you connected the ASWC-1 as described on page 7, section C of the manual? (blue / yellow wire from head unit to brown wire of 3.5mm adapter)
I'm just going on memory here:
1. I had to manually change the radio type to JVC using the procedure on page 12 of the manual. IIRC, it took 3-4 tries.
2. The pickup button will shut the radio off if a mute wire is not connected because it turns on the OnStar prompt. JVC / Kenwood head units don't have a mute wire, so don't even bother with the pickup button. The SW pickup button will ALWAYS activate OnStar. Already called Metra about this, it's hard coded in GM vehicles, and cannot be reprogrammed to BT phone pickup. Annoying, but just use the touch screen or voice dial on the head unit.
I assume that you connected the ASWC-1 as described on page 7, section C of the manual? (blue / yellow wire from head unit to brown wire of 3.5mm adapter)