thanks guys for feedback. well i live in NJ and a lot of the car washes in the area are the kind where u get out of the car, they put the car in nuetral, it rolls in, then u get it when its done. I was worried u couldnt drive the car if the remote wasnt near it. But i was wrong, i decided to risk it and went to wash it. Surprisingly enough, the guy at the car wash told me it would be ok. This car wash gets MANY MANY high end cars that have keyless access. He told me id be ok, and he was right! unfort i got a few micro scratches in the top coat, so i'll be paste waxing it this weekend. Unfort with winter coming, hand washing it myself (which prefer to do) will get pretty difficult. Guess an automatic car wash was inevitable unless i wanted to keep it salty all winter.